"The world is an evil place," my parents always tried to impress on me. But twenty years ago, as a young woman with my eyes full of stars and my heart full of dreams, I found that hard to believe. I tried to take their warnings to heart and see a would-be attacker or rapist around every corner, lurking down every alley but as time went on, I learned that your normal, every day, garden variety American is a pretty nice, good person.
Oh, I knew bad things happened but I believed that, for example, child molestation was rare. A now-and-then occurrence when that weird Uncle Bob lured his niece or nephew into the back shed with candy.
Then middle-aged men began coming forward with horrible stories of Catholic priests who had abused them decades ago. Middle-aged women began to talk openly about being sexually abused by nuns at Catholic orphanages. Lots of priests and nuns at lots of parishes.
And I figured the Catholic church had a problem.
Then I heard that the pastors and PK's at my strict, IFB school groomed and raped students.
And I figured there was a problem amongst some protestant clergy too.
Then I heard about orphans from Boys Town in Nebraska trafficked to the White House under George H. W. Bush's reign. And I figured GHWB had a problem.
But I was wrong. My rosy view of the world was wrong. In fact, my look-on-the-dark side parents were wrong too. The whole cockeyed world is wrong.
Pedophilia isn't isolated to that weird uncle with the perpetual Epstein smirk or that creepy pastor. Don't get me wrong, they're bad but they're garden variety pedophiles. Isolated. Working alone. Small potatoes. And so, for a long time, we thought they were the only pedophiles because they were the only ones getting prosecuted while the Global Pedophilia and Sex Trafficking Ringleaders said how horrible it all was, gave generously to charities to help victims of sexual abuse and swam away unseen, unprosecuted, unfettered.
We're just beginning to get it. Pedophilia is rampant. It's not isolated, it's not rare, it's not secretive. No! It's massive!!! It's everywhere!!! It's systemic in the fabric of every system, every culture, every religion, every industry, every nation. It's how the world works now.
It's like Charlie Chaplin said in his movie Monsier Verdoux: "Kill one person and you're a murderer; kill a thousand and you're a hero."
Rape one child and you're a horrible pedophile. Rape, traffick and murder thousands of children and you're an influential Prince of Industry. You're a respected Politician. You're the leader of a Religion. You're a past President.
Pedophilia is a culture. It's a network. It's an entertainment. It's a hierarchy. It's a currency. It's a religion. It's how the world has worked for years...and only the good people did not know it. The good people who could've tried to do something to stop it if only they'd known it was going on.
I've finally got it through my thick skull that pedophilia is the underlying structure of how the globe functions. Thank God Donald Trump is taking it down!
The Beat Goes On
When my husband tried to protect his children from abuse by bringing the proof into court, he was told, "Mr. Thompson, you're being unrealistic."
That was the word: unrealistic. Ten'll get you twenty the Government Official who said that is a pedophile himself, hence the bizarre denial.
The court went on to say, "If you ever bring allegations of abuse into court again, Mr. Thompson, we'll throw you in jail for Contempt of Court."
And so the beat went on and his youngest daughter died.
When my friend, Nancy (Moll) Haynes reported the sexual abuse she suffered at the hands of Sean (f/k/a Susan) Haggerty starting at the age of fourteen to "Bill Neely, the Spotsylvania Commonwealth Attorney at that time, [he] declined to press any criminal charges against Haggerty."
And so the beat went on.
For thirty-two years Nancy Haynes dragged Haggerty into court after court, not only for her own sake, but for the sake of the hundreds of other girls Haggerty had easy access to potentially groom and potentially abuse as the owner of the Bayberry Riding Center and Bayberry Summer Day Camp in Spotsylvania County, Virginia.
Court after court threw out the case but with incredible strength and will power Nancy still persevered. Finally, in January of 2021, almost fifty years after the initial abuse, Nancy finally won!!!
Haggerty signed a notarized affidavit confession and paid a settlement. Too little and much too late but it's better than nothing.
The beat, hopefully, has stopped.
The Justice System pretends to take pedophilia seriously, and we good-hearted, every-day Americans rightly consider it the most heinous of crimes. So does Donald Trump. But the few pedophiles who are caught and brought to justice are just a drop in the bucket. The prosecution of these low hanging fruit pacifies the good people who don't realize the minnow was caught, while the sharks got clean away.
And the courts!?! There's no money in protecting children but there's bookoo bucks in their harm.
There's big money in tearing apart the family. There's big money made by the states via the Child Support system. There's big, big money in sending children into the foster system where they can be disappeared and trafficked with no one the wiser. If it happened in Germany, it's sure as Hell happening here bigly.
There's no money in protecting children.
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