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Hello Narcissist. Goodbye Normalcy.

1/29/2016

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When did it happen? When did life flip upside-down? When did normalcy flee? When was my last day as a normal human being? Ah, common sense, alas, I never knew thee.

Normal is imperative. It provides guidelines for proper behavior. And that’s why narcissists hate normal. It puts a cramp in their style. Boundaries on their body-mind-and-soul domination. Makes normal people look askance at their abusive ways with a raised, disapproving eyebrow.


As the uber-narcissistic self-styled “Patriarch of Perfection” from USA Network’s popular show is famous (or should I say infamous) for stating…

“There’s no normal in this house.”

Narcissism reeks havoc with normalcy, hence the name of my PsychCentral blog: Narcissism Meets Normalcy

To read the whole article, click here!

http://blogs.psychcentral.com/narcissism/2016/01/hello-narcissism-goodbye-normalcy/



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The Dark Side of Fourth Baptist Christian School

1/26/2016

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My thanks to the gentleman who had the marvelous idea of writing about FBCS on my blog. How did he phrase it again?
"This woman needs to keep her opinions on her blog
and not on a Facebook group."
 What an absolutely marvelous idea! Odd that it never occurred to me before. Ya' just never know where inspiration will strike! See what happens when you piss off a writer. They do nasty things.  Write inconvenient truths.

And on my blog, I cannot be removed. I cannot be blocked. I cannot be deleted. Genius, sir! Pure genius!

Where do I begin? Of course, there are two sides to every story. I can only speak from my own experience at Fourth.

Which would you like first? The good news, yes? Scholastically, FBCS was excellent. They also maintained discipline and order, seared much Scripture into your memory and taught you right from wrong.

Yep.

And now, for the bad news. Grab a cuppa, cause we're gonna be here awhile.

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You're SO Emotional!

1/17/2016

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If I had a dollar for every time I heard, “Lenora, you’re SO emotional,” I’d be a rich woman today. Were you subjected to this denigration too? Does it ring any bells? If Grandsire Triples are ringing in your bell tower, my sympathies. Let’s explore this phenomenon together, shall we?

First, the hard truth. At times all humans are overly emotional. We are human and therefore at times we are indeed too emotional. What can I say? Sh*t happens.

But that’s not what this article is about. It’s about situations where we felt valid emotions, strong emotions, appropriate emotions.  Situations where other people impatiently shamed us not only for feeling these emotions but also angrily shamed us for daring to express them. The legacy and ramifications of this shame is with us still today.

I remember back to a particular scenario. Oh, I must have been about twelve. As usual, Dad and Mom were seated at the kitchen table discussing “she.” Not “Lenora.” Just “she.” They always used “she” to discuss me in the third person. I sat at the end of the table, miserably poking down a tuna sandwich, watching mute and powerless as my fate was impersonally discussed and decided without reference to normalcy nor my emotions.

Click here to read the whole article on PsychCentral.com!



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Love Makes It So Confusing

1/8/2016

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In some ways, healing from narcissistic abuse would be so much easier if I hadn’t felt so loved. Yes, truly loved by the engulfing narcs. The juxtaposition of love versus abuse is so confusing I can feel the pressure building inside my skull each time I think about it.

Click here to read the whole article on Psych Central!

blogs.psychcentral.com/narcissism/2016/01/love-makes-it-so-confusing/


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Introducing New "Narcissism Meets Normalcy" Blog

1/7/2016

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WOW! I'm overwhelmed by all the "Me Too's" in your comments on my blogs this week. And now, thousands more can join our ranks in healing from narcissistic abuse together. Introducing "Narcissism Meets Normalcy" on Psych Central.

Click here to read my introductory blog! Be sure to subscribe to receive daily updates by email!

blogs.psychcentral.com/narcissism/


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